If you want good sex –socialism will give
it you!
Many readers may think of the former
socialist countries as being full of serious Stakhonovite men and heavy-set peasant
women, leading lives of hard work and little pleasure. Well if you do think
that, it will come as a surprise to you that according to a recent essay by Kristen R. Ghodsee in
the series Red Century, about the history and legacy of Communism 100 years
after the Russian Revolution, published in the New York Times (12 August 2017) women
had better sex under socialism!
She writes, “A comparative sociological
study of East and West Germans conducted after reunification in 1990 found that Eastern women had twice as many
orgasms as Western women. Researchers marvelled at this disparity in reported
sexual satisfaction …”. While East German women invariably carried a double
burden of formal employment and housework, most women in West Germany stayed at
home and also had access to more labour-saving devices produced by the bouyant economy.
But apparently, according to the author, they had less sex, and less satisfying
sex, than women in the East.
It was also certainly true that life in
general was not so sexualised as in the West. There was an absence of using
women’s bodies to sell consumer products and there was no objectification of
women’s bodies. This was reflected in the numbers of sexual assaults in both
states.
A study
carried out in 1990 showed that 62 per cent of girls interviewed in West
Germany had experienced a sexual assault of some sort, whereas of those who had
grown up in the GDR it was only 36 per cent.
Of course any reporting on sexual behaviour has to be viewed with
a certain amount of scepticism, and there have been other studies that suggest
there was little difference in terms of sexual behaviour between East and West.
However, it
is certainly true that women throughout the socialist bloc did have many rights
and privileges not widespread in the West at the time, including generous state
investment in their education and training, their full incorporation into the
workforce, generous maternity leave allowances and guaranteed free child care.
Ms. Ghodsee spoke to Daniela Gruber, a recently married
30 year-old, in the eastern German city of Jena and more than 20 years after
reunification. “Her own mother — born and raised under the Communist system —
was putting pressure on Ms. Gruber to have a baby,” she writes.
Daniela says, that her mother “…
doesn’t understand how much harder it is now — it was so easy for women before
the Wall fell. They had kindergartens and crèches, and they could take
maternity leave and have their jobs held for them. I work contract to contract,
and don’t have time to get pregnant.”
Ghodsee says that “This
generational divide between daughters and mothers who reached adulthood on
either side of 1989 supports the idea that women had more fulfilling lives
during the Communist era. And they owed this quality of life, in part, to the
fact that these governments saw women’s emancipation as central to socialism.”
The number
of orgasms GDR women may have had is perhaps not so relevant, but certainly the
attitudes to gender relations, to marriage and sex were much more relaxed an
untrammelled by religious or social factors as they were in the West. Women
didn’t have to fear that a sexual encounter would result in an unwanted
pregnancy, demotion or loss of job;
being in a relationship outside marriage brought no stigma with it. Job
security as well as the right to a home at a low rent were guaranteed. It is
perhaps little wonder that without the stresses that women (and men) experience
under capitalism as well as the absence of ubiquitous sexualised advertising, helped make
sex non-stressful.
It is also
certainly true that women in the territory of the former GDR as well as
throughout Eastern Europe have been the big losers since the demise of
socialism. It is they who have suffered the biggest loss of jobs and the
resultant erosion of economic independence. The imposition of capitalism’s
stereotypical gender imagery and the closure of the many state-funded childcare
facilities has also hit women hardest.
Many western feminists, even if
they grudgingly recognised what state socialism did for women, were critical because
they did not emerge from an independent women’s movement, but came from above.
But the liberation brought about
in the socialist countries, Ghodsee writes, “radically transformed millions of
lives across the globe, including those of many women who still walk among us
as the mothers and grandmothers of adults in the now democratic member states
of the European Union”. Quite a surprising viewpoint to be given space in the
New York Times.
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